College students promote “psychological massage”
People are not new to facial massages in beauty salons, but most people don’t know what is called “psychological massage”.
In layman’s terms, “psychological massage” means participating in mental health education activities.
The reporter learned today from the Psychological Counseling Center of Hainan Medical College that recently, more than 60 students from each department of the hospital voluntarily participated in a 3-day “psychological massage” activity.
The theme of this “psychological massage” is: “Enlighten your life, be close to society, and let your beautiful soul stay with you, us and others.”
Psychological consultation is generally carried out on a “one-on-one” basis. What is going on in such a large group of people who perform “psychological massage” together?
Learn to be tolerant in the game 进行 Play more than 20 games in 3 days, with a lot of activity, but none of the college students participating in the game shouted.
In the past, the words of unity, tolerance, cooperation, and sincerity have been indifferent to college students, and they have become vivid again through “psychological massage” activities.
The college students participating in the game have different family backgrounds.
Many of them are only children and have been petted since childhood. They are not very team spirited and tolerant.
Xiao Hao (pseudonym), a second-year student, said that he only knew how to be tolerant of his girlfriend and did not let his roommates at all. This activity made him understand that his tolerance is actually very narrow, not broad tolerance.
What game caused such a huge psychological change in college students?
Among the more than 20 games, one of them, “Red and Black”, was considered a “classic” game by students.
The rules of the game are as follows: freely combine two teams with equal numbers. Each team can only choose “red” or “black” in the game for a total of 6 times.
If one team chooses “red”, the other team chooses “black”, the one who chooses “red” gets +5 points, the one who chooses “black” gets -5 points; both teams choose “red”, both get -3 points; both teamsBoth choose “black” and both get +3 points.
The game is divided into 6 games, one game at a time. Among them, the score obtained in the third game is doubled, and the score obtained in the sixth game is tripled. Which team gets more positive points, the team wins.
In addition, if anyone in any team abstains, the game will be cancelled immediately.
The team spirit is just around the corner. 2002 Weng Rongtang, a 2002 undergraduate clinical student at Hainan Medical College, said that the game was originally thought to be simple, but when you are in a game environment, you need to achieve tacit understanding through physical language before you know how difficult a decision is.
The deepest experience of the game for Xiao Weng is to learn to make concessions and to think for the other side. Only then can everyone win.
He said that there may be some students who are dissatisfied with many things, and they are furious, and sometimes they may fight, such as: others have misunderstood you, or you have done many things for your classmates but are not understood by them.
The Ma Jiajue incident is a very good illustration of the psychological fragility of college students now, and they always think that others are not good at themselves.
Xiao Qian, a 2002-year-old undergraduate student in the college, said that in the game, everyone’s role in life was interchangeable, and it was completely different from taking a step back.
Originally strange students came together to form a small family during the activity. Each student is a member of this family. It is impossible to win without a team spirit of sincere cooperation.
Xiao Du (pseudonym), a college student who had just been in school for a year, thought that people were hypocritical and ruthless. Through “psychological massage”, he realized that as long as he was sincere to others and made some concessions for others, everything would changeThis is because everyone’s heart is eager for love, care and trust in each other.
The “psychological massage” activity is the first time that Hainan Medical College has carried out the “psychological massage” activity of a large-scale crowd in colleges and universities in our province, and it is an effective attempt in college education reform.
Associate Professor Yue Xiaowen from the Psychological Counseling Center of Hainan Medical College is the organizer of this event.
She said that the “psychological massage” activity uses group psychological counseling technology and is one of the effective vehicles for conducting mental health education for college students.